Sep 5Member-onlyWhy We Should Face Our ProblemsHere are some reasons why we should face our problems instead of avoiding them. Our world encourages us to avoid pain however possible. We take medicine when sniffles appear. Some of us escape our issues in numerous ways, from entertainment and travel to drugs and alcohol. …Self Help2 min readSelf Help2 min read
Aug 8Member-onlyThe Problem With Unrealistic ExpectationsHere’s why our expectations may cause problems for us. We all have hopes and dreams that involve other people fitting in with what we want. However, these aspirations are often unrealistic. Unrealistic expectations can involve: Setting goals we cannot fulfill Having visions of what we want to happen that are…Self Help3 min readSelf Help3 min read
Jul 17Member-onlyMy Message to People Who Have Left a ChurchHere is what I have to say to people who have been hurt by church organizations and left. A long time ago, I was involved in a church I loved (not in my current city). I enjoyed the inspiring worship, in-depth teachings, and fellowship with fellow Christians. I developed wonderful…Church5 min readChurch5 min read
Jul 13Member-onlyThe Benefits of Telling Your Trauma StoryHow writing about our experiences can help us to heal from them. In my writing, I often refer to past trauma. My childhood was full of fear, anxiety, and depression. I endured verbal abuse from my parents who told me I was useless, stupid, and could not do anything right…Mental Health3 min readMental Health3 min read
Jul 5Member-onlyThings That Turn People (and Me) Off About ChristiansHere are some things that both believers and non-believers dislike about some people’s versions of Christianity. I am a Christian myself but have to be honest. What some people think of as Christianity is wrong and gives Christianity a bad name. Behaviors that Turn Off Unbelievers and Other Christians Hypocrisy “Do as I say and not as I do,”…Christian2 min readChristian2 min read
May 31Member-onlySteps to Conquering JealousyHere are some ways to deal with the green-eyed monster. When I was in my teens, I was a shy, backward person. I was envious of people around me who seemed to have it all. I fixated on one girl I will call Sandy who seemed to have it all. …Jealousy2 min readJealousy2 min read
May 15Member-onlyReasons Why People Troll on Social MediaLooking at why people make negative comments on social media. One morning, I start to scroll through my social media feeds. The first message I got was: “F**k you.” Really made my day. I ignored it and blocked the person. When I heard the term “troll” in the past, I…Social Media4 min readSocial Media4 min read
Apr 27Member-onlyWhy Some Televangelism Will Not Work in the FutureHere are some reasons why televangelists need to change to attract new generations. Every once in a while, I check out the Christian shows that are out there. These programs are either focussing on biblical teachings or drawing people to Christ. Some can be engaging, but some seem totally out…Christianity3 min readChristianity3 min read
Mar 22Member-onlyWhat People Get Wrong About Baby BoomersHere is why I think assumptions about aging and the reports that some generations and baby boomers are at war should be re-examined. OK, confession time. I am a baby boomer; that is, I was born between 1946 and 1965. I flatter myself that I do not look it thanks…Seniors3 min readSeniors3 min read
Feb 20Member-onlyWhy I do not Consider Myself to be “Broken” AnymoreI am a Christian who thought of herself as “broken” for many years. Here is why I do not think that anymore. Recently, a female friend told me about a new mental health initiative at church for people who want to overcome their hurts, habits, and past trauma. In the…Christian3 min readChristian3 min read
